You are Worthy

                        You  are Worthy

          "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent"-                               Eleanor Roosevelt

Why is it so easy for us to believe negative things about ourselves and so hard for us to see the positive? In our society we constantly feel like we are being judged. Why should it matter what other people think of you?  What really matters is what you think of you.  I meet so many women who are constantly worried about how they are perceived by others.  We all need to remember that we are fabulous just the way we are (we were all created that way, self-doubt is a learned behavior not an instinctual one).  We need to look at ourselves in the mirror everyday and tell ourselves how fabulous we are and that nothing anyone else says or thinks about us is important.  Once you begin to love yourself, your whole world changes.  You feel so much better and it shows.  People will take their cue from you and treat you better but only when you start to treat yourself better.

         "the way you treat yourself, sets the standard for others" -
            Sonja Friedman