PUT YOURSELF FIRST

"Most of the shadows of this life are caused by standing in one's own sunshine"-
 Ralph Waldo Emerson

Why is it that we spend so much time trying to please others and so little time not making ourselves a priority in our own lives?  Could it be that we feel we are not worthy of being a priority?  We should all be our own #1 priority.  So many goddesses I talk to feel they need to be people-pleasers and make everyone else in their lives a priority, and, if there is any of their time and energy left, they give it to themselves. As women, I think many of us are conditioned to think this way.  We all need to start putting ourselves at the top of our own priority list. We need to appreciate ourselves more.  I think we all spend to much time feeling less than fabulous and we need to remind ourselves how great we are!
 Start by making a list of all your good points- kindness, hard-working,creative, whatever you feel are your best attributes and things you do well.. Once you start listing things you will begin to realize there are more wonderful things you can say about yourself than you thought. Try to list as many things as possible -challenge yourself.
 You will begin to see you are definately worthy of being a priority in your own life. Everytime you make a to-do list "do something nice for me" should be at he top of that list. Pretty soon you will begin to feel so much better about yourself and your whole life. It's a real attitude changer.